We recently received this reflection from one of our fellow PESSians and felt that its something we all ought to read and perhaps reflect on.
This may no doubt offend some, but I do believe that, for the majority of us, it might actually help to remind us all what the true spirit of ICG and being a teacher is all about.
We welcome all comments as we would really like to know what everyone in PESS thinks.
However, please note that vulgarities and flaming will not be tolerated.
Lastly to our contributor, thank you very much for your very honest and heartfelt reflection.
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After yet another grueling ICG session, I trudged back to hall, thoughts swirling in my head. My body was tired, but it was my heart that ached more. From loss, you think? No. It was the flagrant aggressiveness and unsportsmanlike conduct displayed by various classes during the games that made me rethink the relevance of integrity and fairplay in sport.
Each class has a different objective going into an ICG game; some classes don’t hide the fact that they are all out to win, while others are just pleased as punch to participate and play to their utmost as their ability allows them to. Some classes take the time to sincerely look out for each other- both their own teammates and the opponents, who happen to be a part of the PESS family. Unfortunately, this cannot be said for all classes; otherwise I wouldn’t have a reason to ask myself the rationale of ICG.
Coming from a class that can safely announce that we are no great threat to ICG standings, I can confidently state that our objective in playing ICG is just as its name implies; Inter-Class Games, where we are given the opportunity to play against other classes from all the programs. To us, at least, victory is never the primary concern; perhaps this is due to the fact that my class has never been considered a sports powerhouse. And at this point, you might even say that stronger classes that have a higher chance of winning SHOULD go for it and go all out. But at what cost?
We are all mature adults- or are supposed to be, anyway. So what does it say about the character of our trainee PE teachers if we have to spell out the obvious, like how ICG is supposed to be a platform for us to get to know other PESS members from other programs, people whom we might not otherwise get to know? Like how ICG, being a relatively low-level competition- compared to, say, IVP level or national level- is supposed to foster good relations between the classes, not the opposite? I would have thought that mentioning things like sportsmanship and fairplay would be pretty useless, since most of us in PESS are athletes, and should know all this. But it seems like I was wrong.
As future PE teachers (and HODs and principals, as Pat Wong is so fond of calling us), it is indeed worrying that there is a sore lack of the very virtues that we are supposed to be imparting to our students. If we do not practice what we preach, how hypocritical are we to expect our students to engage in meaningful physical activity in a supportive classroom learning environment? Of course we can gloss over it and say that the classroom is vastly different from a competitive game. But the level of aggression and competitiveness at ICG this semester is, to put it mildly, ridiculous.
Let’s say if your class was to win ICG. Does that make you a better teacher? Does that give you more recognition? Because the last time I checked, we are all in here to learn how to be more effective PE teachers, not to win ICG. And for the benefit of all, if you are still not too sure of the objectives of PE, I suggest that you go read your little blue textbook and go reflect. I’m a firm believer in practicing what I preach, and from what I see now, I am worried.
Worried that the next generation of students will be taught by teachers who were not even able to rationalize and internalize the real objectives of ICG. Worried because it means that PESS has failed to impart any meaningful lessons to you as far as character and sports are concerned. As the proverb goes, you can lead the horse to water but you cannot make it drink. And this epidemic display of over-competitiveness and unfriendliness makes me feel sad, because of the lessons Mr K put so much effort into teaching us what is obviously being ignored here. And because, like it or not, at the end of the day, PESS is one family. Or it should be.
- Anon
16 comments:
Should classes be embarrassed of the fact that they have set out to win the competition? Is the spirit of competition and striving to win- a bad thing? Are we trying to say that not trying your best is ok? giving only your half efforts means you are showing sportsmanlike behavior?
I have to disagree with your notion that competitiveness and sporting behavior do not go hand in hand. Competitiveness does NOT equal to flagrant fouls or cheating to win, it only simply means being competitive. I believe one of the key objectives of P.E. is to teach the ideal of "Arete" or simply trying your best.
While i agree that there were instances of unsporting behavior and rough play, i have to disagree that the level of aggression as you put it is ridiculous. So my take on this would be for the certain individuals who have displayed such behavior to tone it down and it should be the duty of his/her classmates to rein that person in. Is that currently happening at the moment?
I'm assuming(i could be wrong), that you are not a first year student. With regards to fostering good relations with other classes, let me ask you a question- have you actively gone out to get to know the juniors? If yes, good on you. But if no, then your point is invalid as you are not making the efforts to do so otherwise. Just my thoughts, more effort could be done to promote interaction between the classes (how? thats for the pess comm and conveyors to figure out)
To sum up my thoughts, while i agree that the spirit of the ICG can and must be improved upon, i also applaud your efforts for bringing this point out. However, i do not believe that it is solely due to being competitive which causes this issue. I for one will not apologize for being competitive and giving my best in the ICG.
Different classes have different different objectives... some, all out to win, some just come here to have fun...
i'm not judging who's right and who's wrong, but think about this, a cube has six sides, there are different ways to look at things...
maybe to you, the person maybe rough and giving his all, but to others, he may be not... sometimes we just have to give and take...
i believe that in the spirit of excellence, being competitive is nothing wrong... i also believe, that everyone from PESS, do not play with the intention to hurt others... rough as they maybe, but never the intention to hurt anyone...
So, whoever you may be Anon, chillax...
yup... agreed... competitiveness can come together with sportsmanship and fairplay as well. you can be competitive and win, and yet be applauded for good spirit.
whoever wrote the post, i'm sure you'll know this when you've had more experience in playing sports and when you start to teach and coach teams.
so don't worry/think so much, just have fun at ICG! :)
-vivien-
I'm on the same vein of thought.
What are the objectives of ICG?
(1)Class bonding
(2)Friendship through sports
(3)Picking up a new sport
I believe there are much more. Have the classes achieved at least the above mentioned? I believe most would have. At least from the year ones’ point of view, I can see that the classes are tighter than before, and some of us have started to mingle with one another. I’m not sure about the academic senior classes thou.
With regards to the small little blue book, it’s a good idea to revisit some of the ideas in there. I think we'll refresh our memories and revisit some of the theories we learnt, including the definition of what 'sport' is. ‘Sport is an organized, COMPETITIVE form of play.’ (M.Koh, H.Tan 2006) Does it mean that being competitive and trying our best contradicts what we learn in the small blue book?
So far the conveyors has done a decent job of organizing the various games, however I think more can be done. It is frustrating for the players, referees and supporters alike when the rules are not being uniformly enforced and it is the jobs of the conveyors to ensure that the referees are aware of the rules and rules do not change last minute.
I believe a source of contention in the Touch Rugby was due to the lack of knowledge of the rules from the referees that cause disagreements amongst the players and referees. As future PE teachers, we would have to organize similar activities during Sports Day would we be happy if we were to do a job that was not of a high standard??
However, I agree on the fact that the spirit of ICG could be further developed and improved. We, as future role models, should clean up our act. As academic juniors, we’ll look up to the leadership of the PESS committee and the seniors, for guidance, inspirations and camaraderie.
Let’s not talk the walk, but walk the talk.
I think in essence, we all need to realize that YES, competitiveness & sportsmanship can go hand in hand especially during game play, but whats even more important is what we do after / before the game that matter.
From the simplest actions like a smile, to perhaps even checking to see that the person you may have unfortunately pissed off during the game, is ok.
If you guys can put in all your efforts in playing a game, then why not put in that extra effort in making the atmosphere more friendly, rather than simply counting on the PESS Comm or even the Convening Classes to do so?
:)
what really is the spirit of competition? i would think at ANY level, it would be to give your best with the limited resources and time you have. Also, at all levels, you will have different people with objectives. there are no right or wrong here. Some people are just happy to be part of the event and others want to win it. the beauty here is that EVERYONE contributes to the success of the whole tournament. that is also the beauty of sports. You get to see many different approaches, methods, tactics, characteristics and ideals. As far as i can recall, the only way about to winning that is not acceptable is to CHEAT to win.
So Anon, something that may seem rough might be normal in the eyes of others. Some of these people have competed at higher level, or they might just be naturally stronger than others. A slight nudge from me can mean a shove to another. So dun take it too personally. as long as at the end of the day, we know we are just having fun and being competitive, its OK!!!
Some might feel that others try to take advanatage of them just because they defend harder, but you are wrong. For me, it is because i RESPECT you as a player thats why i defend harder when you get the ball. If I feel that you are of NO THREAT at all, why would i put in so much effort? so maybe for those that think people are rough, switch a perspective. take it as part of the game.
For those who have travelled and seen higher levels of competition, you would then truly have a better understanding of the meaning of sportsmanship.
Sports teaches us values; to try your best, to think for others, honesty and among many others.
Lastly, there are POINTS given out to everyone depending on their placing. why? this is to encourage pple to put in effort. incentive.
would it be the best if EVERYONE drew with everyone? maybe then, everyone would be winners. (definition of winning is subjected to individuals)
Xiang
Competitiveness requires maturity.
To distinguish between excellence and the overt need to win.
As teachers, PE teachers, we will have to mitigate and teach the proper values of competitiveness to our students eventually.
Competitiveness transcends sports.
It permeates the many aspects of life from work and for the students, studies.
What is important is the recognition of the need for a healthy level of competitiveness to help the person to reach for his/her best. (key word=healthy)
And that avoiding competition is not necessarily the healthiest choice - “But if you want a nation
and a society to flourish and
to prosper, it must produce
leaders. And leadership is
not just being clever and
writing essays. You need
men of action: sportsmen,
gymnasts, rugger players ,
boxers, outward bound
school types, rowers,
sailors, airmen, leaders of
debating societies,
organisers of men.” (Lee
Kuan Yew, 1965)
That is definitely a value that our students will need to learn in the future.
Competitiveness in a holistic sense, infused with values such as compassion, just, fairness and
respect for the fellow (wo)man.
That is what, we, as future shapers of the physical education landscape in Singapore should hold close to our hearts and pass it on.
To quote from The History Boys: "Take it, feel it and pass it on. Not for me, not for you, but for someone, somewhere, one day."
it is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye.
~Antoine de Saint-Exupery
leave any judgment you have for yourself, not others. we are not born to be judged. and please don't ever judge those young ones in school. they deserve better.
"Nothing in the world is ever completely wrong, my dear," said her father, looking at the clock. "Even a stopped clock is right twice a day."
many interesting points raised.
Firstly, i believe we each have our personal definition of competitiveness and fairplay; if you feel that you managed to play to your utmost without compromising sportsmanship, then indeed i salute you. But as mentioned, it is the blacksheep who threaten to undermine the spirit of ICG, and if you say that it is the duty of the class to highlight this and rectify such behaviour on your classmates' part, please do so.
Secondly. Many of you seem to expect the PESS comm and icg conveners to 'promote' interaction between classes. But why just them? If you ask whether the seniors have done anything to get to know the juniors better, then allow me to ask you the same; what have YOU done so far? Why expect the PESS comm, the conveners, the non-year ones to do all the work? I believe that it takes two hands to clap.
Thirdly. Somebody pointed out that perhaps it was the lack of knowledge and/or consistent enforcement of the rules that contributed negatively, however indirectly,to the whole ICG experience. Before you slam the referees thus, I think you should try to look at it from a different perspective, as you guys seem so fond of doing. Granted, not all refs have textbook knowledge of the rules, since often, each class is asked to send in one anyway, regardless of their experience level etc. It's not easy to step up and be a ref, at the risk of being harassed by people on the sidelines who obviously think they know better. If you're so sure that you can do a better job, please, put us all out of our misery and volunteer to ref, thank you very much.
Fourthly. There lies a difference between giving your all, and being unnecessarily rough., One of you pointed out that if a person is being defended 'harder', it is a sign of respect to the opponent. I'm sure many of us have played at higher levels of competition, and I'm sure the writer of this passage would not have felt compelled to take time off a busy schedule to put his/her thoughts to paper without a very good reason. If you've played at higher levels, good for you; but this is just ICG? Perspective, please?
I suppose the trouble with sports is that one side has to lose for the other side to win. But what seems to be happening is that ICG is increasingly becoming a lose-lose situation; sometimes, winning the game is not good enough. If everyone is such a seasoned athlete/ good sportsman, then where is the joy of winning against a weaker class?
Firstly can I ask if "Anon" has actually gone up to that particular class whom he/she felt has gone overboard during the ICG and clarified things?
There's so much ambiguity that its not helping things at all. I mean we are all mature adults (supposedly) and if we take offense so easily without trying to really understand what went on, then we have a long way to go in our maturity to handle conflicts next time yah!
If Anon has seen/heard things that were not very pleasant, then y not tackle it immediately? Posting the grievances on the blog won't solve things because it will just create more assumptions and the vicious cycle continues.
My take is also this : PESS Com should really sit down to discuss what they feel should be the direction for ICGs in future. Obviously the original intent of encouraging interactions amongst the different classes across batches is not working, so actions must be taken. If objectives n values are not clear, don't assume the Yr 1s or future batches to know.
Hi All,
Firstly, thanks for all the great feedback.
Secondly, I would like to highlight a few points that have been brought up.
On our part, we, the PESS Comm have sat down and decided on the direction of ICG and we have made efforts to pass this on to all the classes. For example,
1) I, DID send an email to all classes at the beginning of the ICG year to highlight the direction of ICG.(7th August 2008) If you have not received it, please kindly check with your class reps. If not, I would be more than happy to re-forward the email to you.
2) In addition, we recently also held a Class Rep's meeting (10th September 2008) where we once again highlighted our objectives of ICG & we went to the extent of giving all class reps a hand-out with the above mentioned information. Should you wish to know more, please do read the hand-out.
3) We have also made an effort to highlight to convening classes on what is expected from ICG and have even come up with suggestions as to how we could possibly try to "perk up" ICG.
Unfortunately, there's only so much we can do. The rest is up to our cohort to make that difference.
But we do welcome all feedback and practical suggestions as to how, we, as a cohort can make this situation better for all.(i.e. any suggestions for activities for the upcoming floorball game?) :)
Best Regards,
Teguh Daniel Tampemawa
President
7th PESS Committee
Direct reply to Anon
Point 1:
So what do you propose to do about these "blacksheeps"?
Point 2:
You avoided the very question that i posed to you by throwing it right back at me?? Ok, i can say that Yes i have made the efforts to know not just the seniors but the people in PESS in general. And you?
Point 3:
If you were to read on what Yuliang wrote, he was not slamming the referees but rather the convening class to come up with proper set of rules and to brief the referees proper. And Yes i have refereed in the Touch ICG
Lastly, is there any reason why you are hiding behind the veil of anonymity? As you say, aren't we in PESS supposed to be a family after all? So whats there to hide? Just curious to know...
Empathy:
- Feeling what someone else feels, even though that person hurt you
- Seeing the problem from another's point of view, even though you are certain that other point of view is wrong
- Standing in someone else's shoes, even though those shoes are currently walking all over you
when we point the blame finger at the other party, always remb that three other fingers are pointing at ourselves.
Hi Everyone,
Its great to hear your views and do keep it coming in. However, rather than dwelling on the negatives, perhaps some of you might have some great ideas for the upcoming ICG which could help make the atmosphere a lot more fun, festive & perhaps help to foster a closer PESS family?
Anyone?
Cheers!
Sam
I think i've made some effort to get to know every batch, ever since i was in Year 1 (in 2005). At least a "hi" or a "bye". It ain't Faizal if u dun hear my voice from afar, or see my cycling in the rain as u smile in bus 199. Haha.
Anyway, perhaps in conjunction with Ramadan and upcoming Hari Raya (1 Oct), perhaps convening class can provide dates or packet drinks for Muslims to break fast? Or for one of the sports, e.g. volleyball, we have everyone to wear any ethnic costumes? Ok, i know im being ridiculous and lame. Cant help it lah. 12:45am on a Fri morning. Just wanna make myself "heard", even in cyberspace.
See ya'll around in school :)
-Md Faizal-
BSc (PE) Year 4
Chairperson
NIE DanceFuzion
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